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Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

13.06.2025 03:29

Why did my ex-narcissist move so fast with his new supply marriage engagement moving in, etc.?

Once they have a willing victim locked they move fast. After that they relax back into their usual self important, imperious, demanding self. The honeymoon phase lasts three months with these creatures.

They need a service provider! They need a cook, cleaner and sex object into which they can relieve themselves. Plus love bombing is a bit of a pain. It takes energy and constant self checking to keep up the nice guy front.

My advice: enjoy the three month ride then move along.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?